"look as unhappy as possible" that offended me a little. Like, goth people aren't depressed or angry at all. Maybe the ones in puberty are a bit rebellious, but as a 26 year old mom. Who still is into this scene, the stereotyping in this way is a bit offensive. Besides that. You look stunning in these outfits. I think you absolutely get away with this style.
Actual question… do you really pronounce it tar-je or was sam just kidding? In America I sometimes hear people pronounce it that way, but always kiddingling. We actually pronounce it tar-get… The differnce pronunciations and accents always fascinate me